Former Prime Minister (PM) Raila Odinga has shared a key tip for a successful marriage that stands the test of time.
Speaking at the farewell party of former Roads CS Franklin Bett’s daughter in Kericho on Saturday, April 26, Raila emphasized that there is no leadership in marriage.
While addressing the groom and bride, Raila told them that marriage is like being in “prison,” emphasizing the importance of partnership and mutual respect for a successful, lasting relationship.
“You will be here and there is no leader in marriage. You are partners, and you are equal partners. There’s nobody who’s a leader and nobody who is being led,” Raila said.
Raila Urges Newlyweds to Embrace Partnership for a Lasting Marriage
The former Prime Minister emphasized that marriages often face challenges when issues of equality and leadership become a point of contention.
He noted that for a marriage to thrive, both partners must work as equals, avoiding situations where one person assumes a dominant leadership role over the other.
Raila went on stressing that mutual respect and understanding form the foundation of a strong relationship, ensuring harmony and longevity in the marriage.
“The reason why some of the marriages come in getting into difficulties is because somebody tells you that you are a leader, you’re leading your wife.”
“A wife is an equal person and a grown-up just like you, mentally gifted just like you. Why do you want to be the one leading her?”
You’ll be joining together as partners. So, Becky, you will be there as a partner.
The former PM further noted that when two people are married as equal partners, they are able to raise a family together, sharing responsibilities and supporting each other.
Former PM Attributes His 50-Year Marriage to Partnership and Mutual Respect
He drew a comparison to his own marriage with his wife, Mama Ida Odinga, saying their strong partnership has been key to their successful family life that has lasted for over over 50 years.
“You will be there as a partner. Then you will be able to raise a family together. I want to tell you that two years ago, my wife Ida and I celebrated our golden anniversary — 50 years together,” Raila said.
“And I said on that occasion that if I had the opportunity again, I would still say yes.”
He pointed out that very few people can say the same, noting that some often regret their choice of partner, saying, “If I knew, I would not have gotten myself into this kind of trouble.”
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How to Deal With Challenges
Raila added that marriage comes with many challenges, but a couple can overcome them if there is mutual respect and a spirit of working together.
“But there will be a lot more challenges, and those challenges you’ll be able to manage if you respect each other and work together. That would be my advice to you today,” he added.
Meanwhile, the ODM leader observed that the institution of marriage is slowly dying, noting that today, marriages between individuals of the same gender are becoming more common.
However, he emphasized the importance of continuing to value and honor the traditional union between a man and a woman in the country.
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