Social media influencer Kemunto Diana famously known as Shes Kemunto has advised women in abusive relationships.
The influencer through her Instagram stories posed a question asking her fans and followers if they have ever been in abusive relationships with the hashtag womanbeater.
“Have you ever dated an abuser/narcissist? #womabeater,” reads her question.
Kemunto’s question sparked chilling confessions from several users on the social media app Instagram who majorly admitted having been in abusive relationships.
The social media influencer compelled by the responses she got shared advice with the women urging them to walk out of toxic relationships.
She cautioned her followers to refrain from entertaining toxicity noting that it would mentally damage them in the long run.
“Stop thinking toxic is sexy, stop entertaining this, it will mentally damage you at long last,” she wrote.
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Kemunto Tells Women to Act Fast
Kemunto proceeded to warn them against waiting for something bad to happen before walking out adding that it might be too late.
“Stop waiting for something to happen for you to move, most probably by the time you decide to move you will be dead,” she stressed.
“Too many coffins down there just from abusive relationships. You have a voice walk away start over just do something but do not stay.”
Furthermore, she addressed women who stay with abusive men and husbands for the sake of their kids noting that even the children would not choose to stay in the abusive space.
“The women who stay coz of their kids, I am sure if you ask your kids, they won’t choose to stay so move,” she advocated.
Fans Respond to Kemunto’s Question
The question, have you ever dated/married an abuser/narcissist, elicited a variety of responses that caught the attention of the influencer.
Women came forth with answers, confessions and some posted gruesome pictures that depicted the acts done to them as a form of response to the question.
One follower responded to the question by stating that dating a narcissist had been one of the worst things that ever happened to her.
“He would best me and choke me, he even hit me while I was pregnant,” she wrote as per the IG stories shared by Kemunto.
Another user said, ” Yes, I dated one Kem (Kemunto) he would beat me till akue sawa (to his satisfaction) as i was still nursing my three-months old child. I will never forget.
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Sharing her experience another woman noted that her partner assaulted her and told her no one would beleive her if she reported him.
“Yes, and he used to tell me, when you tell people about it, no one will believe you. Cause he looked very descent,” she narrated.
Speaking on the same note, another female wrote that, “I have gone through a lot with this man for the past 3 years, hadi nikaishiwa na nguvu (until my strength depleted).”
The confessions that have since grown to over 50 responses with each confession grilling, Kemunto probed the question, “What happened to healthy relationships?”
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