Man Worried About Mother-in-Law Knowing About His Other Family

A Kenyan man entangled with two baby mamas has appealed for advice as he fears his family will soon know his secret.

In his appeal, the man said he was married for two years and had a baby with his first wife. He, however, broke up with his first wife and later got married to another lady with whom he now has a one-month-old baby.

The twist is that the second wife’s mother is unaware he has another child from a previous relationship. The man is now conflicted about whether to tell his mother-in-law or keep it under wraps a little longer.

Advise on baby mamas

His current wife is, however, aware of his previous relationship.

While speaking in an online interview, life coach Benjamin Zulu stated that he believes people can peacefully co-parent with baby mamas and must not get married because their baby mama got pregnant.

“Never marry the wrong person because of a pregnancy, they will turn your life upside down. They expose you, steal your money, or even get kids with other people. You need stability, you need peace and you need love,” he stated.

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“It is better to marry the right person who will in turn help you co-parent. If you make one mistake don’t correct it by making another mistake,” he added.

This comes as a report released in February 2025 by Mwelekeo Insights revealed that 51 percent of Kenyan women particularly those in Nairobi, are open to polygamous relationships.

Nairobi women inclined to polygamy

The report sought to understand how young women in Nairobi perceive marriage owing to the current social factors that affect them. It stated that women are comfortable in such relationships as long as they provide economic transformation in their lives.

At the same time, 80 percent of the respondents stated that marriage is not a priority for them at the moment as they would rather prioritize financial stability and pursuing higher education as opposed to getting married.

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The report also indicated that less educated women were more inclined to prioritize marriage compared to those who are highly educated.

The survey further stated that 60 percent of women in Nairobi believe that marriage would affect their lives negatively, while 25 percent believe it would impact them positively.

“While marriage remains a culturally significant institution, evolving aspirations related to career growth, financial independence, and personal freedom are reshaping traditional perspectives,” read the report in part.

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